Old 10-03-2005, 09:22   #1 (permalink)
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Too soon to leave ?

I think I fucked up.
Started a new job last week and already wish i hadn't taken it.

Felt unsure after 1st interview.
Still unsure after 2nd interview.
Still unsure after being offered it.
Still unsure after 2 weeks in .....

Picked up my job search again (after 2 days)

How bad do i feel ??
How bad should I feel ??
How stupid would i look if they caught me typing this ??

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Old 10-03-2005, 09:23   #2 (permalink)
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Why dont you like it - Is it the people or the work ?
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:32   #3 (permalink)
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it's the location mostly - takes up to 2 hours to get to. it's the money also - doesn't cover that kind of travel time and expense. its also the prospect of having to do print stuff - which will be all new to me - and not something i'm particularly interested in.

what swung it for me initially was the fact it was permanent and i'm trying to buy my house. the money sounded good, but bearing in mind the travel time and costs - it breaks down again...

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Old 10-03-2005, 09:34   #4 (permalink)
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....and if they think I'm gonna wear a stupid fuckin' red nose tommorrow they're gonna be very much mistaken..... it's all going a bit "The Office"
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:37   #5 (permalink)
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[edit] man i type sooo slow! [/edit]

I'm a designer for a corporate enterprise that thinks everything must be blue. logos, websites, christmas/easter cards, template emails.
Nobody here knows anything about css, html, or can understand why googled images they send me are no good for print...
If you don't have to do with this kind of people, then don't leave. (if you do, just run like hell )
On the other hand, if you don' t feel comfortable (and money is not an issue like in my case), then just fuck'em!

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Old 10-03-2005, 09:43   #6 (permalink)
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it's the location mostly - takes up to 2 hours to get to. it's the money also - doesn't cover that kind of travel time and expense. its also the prospect of having to do print stuff - which will be all new to me - and not something i'm particularly interested in.

what swung it for me initially was the fact it was permanent and i'm trying to buy my house. the money sounded good, but bearing in mind the travel time and costs - it breaks down again...

humbug

2 hours. bloody hell, that would really do my head in after while.
I say pick up what you can about print while you're there as that stuff will come in useful.
but sounds like you've made your mind up to leave anyway.
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:45   #7 (permalink)
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The money would have to be really good to cover a 2 hour journey each day. Give it a month and see what happens, you might find you like doing the print stuff.
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:46   #8 (permalink)
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I am not having a go at you but, it sounds like you did not research the job enough or didnt listen to what was expected of you.

A lesson learned.
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:48   #9 (permalink)
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2 hours to and from work is SILLY

Even if you work a standard 8 hour day + 4 hours travel, you would have no time for anything else!
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Old 10-03-2005, 09:55   #10 (permalink)
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I know.....that is worst case scenario, by the way.....
On paper - when i looked into it - the time came to 1.15 mins (public transport)
I know the journey can be about 35 mins (by car) and was told after being offered the job (when i was trying to squeeze more wedge out of them to cover the travel side) that 'lots of people drive in from Liverpool - you'll probably get to arrange a lift'

That hasn't happened.

I knew the risks. I had a go. Now I'm looking to bail.
I still might get into the print stuff, but unless there's re-negotiation on the cards soon, I'm just as happy to go and work down the bingo hall.

Eyes Down for a Full House.

(just needed a good, old moan)
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:10   #11 (permalink)
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where are you working by the way? didn't notice you were in Liverpool
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:13   #12 (permalink)
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Just outside Warrington - so it's really not that far - but turning into a real pain without a car !!!
Potential Plus points by the way are : bonus, pension, healthcare etc....
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:21   #13 (permalink)
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....and if they think I'm gonna wear a stupid fuckin' red nose tommorrow they're gonna be very much mistaken..... it's all going a bit "The Office"

Stick your red nose on you miserable bastard,
If it's bearable at least- i'd stay for a bit, every job takes a while to settle into and new skills are always handy to learn.
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:21   #14 (permalink)
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.....you would have no time for anything else!
I know, I'll even have to start wanking on the train !!!
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:21   #15 (permalink)
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Been there, got the t-shirt and breakdown to match.

Albeit, I was in a high pressure tech job for a government contractor. I commuted 2 hours to and 2 hours home every night (motorway driving - or crawling) and that's if I was lucky with the traffic (M5/M4 Junction).

Anyway the people that worked there were all Southern Fairy Wankers and they knew I didn't fucking like them or their stupid policies and office politics or collections for leaving staff members who I was glad to see the back of. (I did give £20 towards this fat blonde chick once on the condition that I never saw or heard from her again!)

So, this went on for just over a year, each day with me becoming more tired and fucked off until I just couldn't get out of bed one morning and I mean I COULD NOT GET UP! I felt like crying and just ached all over...... According to the doctor, I had suffered a mini-breakdown - a combination of overwork, exhaustion, depression (because I hated the working environment)......

Basically, I haven't worked full-time since.... So the moral of that story (for me anyway) is that I will never work anywhere that I don't want to, at times and days convenient for me not someone else... It just isn't worth my health - life is for living not working.

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Old 10-03-2005, 10:27   #16 (permalink)
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Wow, somehow makes me feel much better.

I think.

Thanks.

I think.
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:27   #17 (permalink)
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:30   #18 (permalink)
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:44   #19 (permalink)
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I used to have to travel to Swansea.
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Old 10-03-2005, 10:55   #20 (permalink)
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it's good to talk...
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